I’m going to build this post up soon (frankly, my attention has been at O* M* F***ing G**), but if you want to automatically mirror someone in ALL forms (recommended only for SOME of the time), then try this; ask:
“How (best) to [person’s name]?”
For example, suppose your name is Stevo and I want to model the fact that you relax your facial expression as you hold your hand up while breathing in a low and slow fashion. The first approach that an NLP-er or sales professional might take to connect with you is to consciously relax his facial expression while holding his hand up at times as he breathes in a low and slow fashion (typically doing each of these one at a time). OR, instead of modeling you consciously, he can choose the route that I accidentally discovered with my ex-friend Paul Rothchild: Make the person in to a process & convert it into a question, evaluation, mind-probe, whatever you want to call it… because your Unconscious Mind-Body does all the work for you.
Do determine the strength of this argument, I’ve done this a dozen times at least before I came to the conclusion that this was gold. Though it’s not always recommended, I simply recommend it if you need some starter wheels to really “rocket boost” your rapport skills.
Let me know if this helps! This was one of the best lessons that I’ve ever learned 🙂
Are you familiar with the Pimsleur approach to language learning? This dude at 73 years of age found the ideal way to memorize a language, and it has since allowed me to speak fluent Chinese and Spanish.
Perhaps you can create a program for Pickup Artists to help them learn the routines and gambits (I identify as a “Pickup Artist,” fyi). Or perhaps you can help people memorize standard magic tricks through the Pimsleur approach.
Whatever you do, it’d be excellent.
The First Page of “People”:
- Specific states
- Neurological connections between cells (neurons) in the body)
- Stimuli in the environment
- An invisible energy carries thought
- If something aligns with them, then they accept it
- Compelling stories
- “Don’t let them manage levels of influence”‘
- (Haha! Middle finger)
- What, how are those other images that I need to consider?
- Serious visions create max Unconscious desire to realize that desire any way possible
- Neurological habits
- Way of communicating with the world
- Commitment and Consistency
- Good deal
- Social Proof
- Uncertainty (DETACH FROM SURPRISE–Uncertainty is the most influencable state… I.e. that’s why most men will pay me money for teaching them how to date)
- “Why these and not else?”
- Is a good idea to consider when causing other people to do something I want them to do
- Compare it to current focus/activity/situation and figure out how to make it obviously better
- Does it increase or decrease these?
- What is the current level of fulfillment for the action I expect him/her to do? Make it better through a metaphor or something (Prep a metaphor for Jake and Thomas)
- Whatever they’re searching for they get!
- “Ways to act that will achieve my goal”
- If you’re a Hooters girl, you’ll likely keep that image for a very long time
- If you’re a hard worker, then…
- Make it hurt each of your six human needs if you do [leave]
- Needs to fulfill each
- Do the parts of Rules of the Game
- Needs to fulfill each of 6 Human Needs
- Need the right vision(s)–hyper submodalize
- Need to pull in ideas and help people own
- Catch people doing something right
- They’re just human–fears, scared, shit, pull in, hatred, envy, desires, etc.
- They have natural nurturing instinct
- What makes women hooked on me?
- If people take ownership of an idea–they’ll defend wholeheartedly the veracity of it!
- Get girls following the visions of what I desire for them to do with the power of stories & embedded commands
- 80/20 the actions in this Hooters world
- Determine my outcome
- Think it makes them look cooler
- Certain that their profile won’t get hurt
- (Think that it’ll make the other person like them)
- Provok powerful ppl — Generate
- What makes people really apply something that I suggest?
- What makees me care less about people’s judgement of their influence on them? (Smaller)
- What makes people deliver amazing stories–persuasions–presentation
- What best role can I share?
- Poking @ their insecurities in a way that they’ve been trying to hide 🙂
- Anytime there’s tension… act on it! Point it out
- Scarcity (!)
- Growing (!)
- Understand them(!)
- easy pain removal certainly
- hyper-pleasure add
- What best really makes people generate powerful feelings through images?
- What best really makes people committed to having me on payroll?
- Creating value to the point where someone says, “Alright” [to whatever pay I ask]
- Images of terrible things that’ll happen if don’t [pay me]
- See herself making out with you
- Feel as if she’s really loved & familiar with you
- Needs to experience sensations “down there” to really feel like doing it
- figure out xp of others
- What best really makes people [suck dick, love models]?
- turn her on
- neurological strands strengthened
- (flowchart of reroute from the healthier option to desired feelings)
- When they find that people, once found, will create the world for me
- Make the world a happier place
- Focus entirely on the best of things [i.e. what you’re the best at]
- Create powerful levels of love & excitement
- specific things
- Solid eye contact
- Powerful love
- Know benefit/outcome/why
- Avoid Pain + To Pleasure
- Social Proof
- Mirror neurons
- Images in the mind–which activate mirror neurons[?]
- Commit & Consistency
- Mirror neurons [with self-image kept consistent with]]]
- Avoid rejection
- Status results from tribe[?]
- Outstanding deal
Loving the NLP stuff is just about the single most important step you can take when first starting a journey on personal development. But loving NLP stuff comes best when a routine is–advertently or inadvertently–done on you in a seminal, flavorful manner that you enjoy. When you get some dramatic change in your life via a fun process such as a parts integration, you’ll become almost addicted to NLP (if only for a short time, anyway). And if you’ll get that short burst of addiction from loving NLP, even for a short period of time, your life will transform just enough for you to evolve to the next level.
Just know that when you get to the next level, you’ll need to add in (applied) knowledge from more than just NLP (i.e. the rest of psychology and neurology).
These are two ways to kick-start your emotional life like a sustainable nuclear explosion of awesomeness. The two ways to start your nuclear explosion are:
- If you have wet clothes in the washer, and you need warm, dry clothes FAST: Microwave them. Now, while there may be some fabrics that may melt or some shit if microwaved, I’ve had much success with microwaving freshly washed, cotton socks just before work (“THE MORE YOU KNOW :D”)
- If you’re feeling perpetually drowsy, then do as Tony Robbins says, and “Set a new standard!” With setting a new standard (especially with vitality/drowsiness-relife) comes the name Tony Robbins (always!), so if you haven’t visited an Unleash the Power Within seminar nor purchased his CD’s, then I highly recommend that you do, because he literally helps you condition yourself to be outstanding. If you listen to Tony Robbins’s Unleash the Power Within seminar, you’ll be able to apply this suggestion IMMEDIATELY when I say, ” make breathing deeply and evenly during 95% of waking moments” an absolute MUST.” If you don’t have Tony Robbins as a reference (specifically his Unleash the Power Within seminar), then you won’t have nearly the capability to apply this suggestion as you otherwise would, if you were to listen to his seminar.
If you’ll apply these two suggestions immediately to your everyday waking life (and your dreams?), you’ll experience a level of vitality and happiness like never before. If you apply these two suggestions and gain the vitality and happiness, then perhaps you’ll lose that 30 pounds of weight (or gain it if your looking to gain muscle). If you get the vitality, happiness, weight loss/gain, then perhaps you’ll treat your family, friends, or otherwise close reference group with more love, courage, and leadership… which COULD possibly maybe perhaps get you laid an approximate 300.435% more than you were originally… but I can’t be sure, lol 🙂
Let me know if this helps!
It’s only natural to create the highest value for a person… if you’re a god. So, why not become godlike and do exactly the opposite of what you want to do: Give away your highest value secrets?
- Use upward tonality ANYTIME you ask yourself a question–your mind registers over six times as much information (38% vs. 7%) comes from vocal qualities (i.e. pitch) than from literal words, and part of asking yourself a question comes from that rise in intonation. If you’ll ask yourself questions ONLY in upward-ending pitches, your Unconscious Mind-Body will thank you for it
- Check out these 5 Awesome Kitchen Cheats That Will Make Your Life Easier that will make your life easier
- Write down everything that captivates you from popular newspaper headlines… model them when writing your own blog headlines
- Do Ho’oponopono daily–you won’t believe the amount of emotional drain that’s going on between you and others… until you actually do this.
- Seriously, do the Ho’oponopono (i.e. “The Forgiveness Process” per NLP), and feel yourself freed from the tyranny of sickening relationships
- Do the Ho’oponopono, lol
- Relax your facial muscles 80% of the time in public–I’m a very expressive and smiley person, but if you ration out your approval (i.e. through your expressions and body gestures), people will respect you and your praise infinitely more (note: the law of scarcity)
- Read great literature daily
- Study Photoreading, believe that you can do it, and then study Qi-gong and hypnotherapy to further enhance your studies (if you can put yourself in a trance–or much less believe for yourself that you can be tranced, your odds of successfully absorbing the material)
- Set the definition for success with everything you do, and then be flexible in all that you do
- Diversify your portfolio for self-esteem (“I really, really dislike failure” Tim Ferriss)–i.e. whenever you go out, don’t just go out to get laid make out with a girl, etc.–go out to experience a particular type of drink, to ride the bull, to take three funny pictures, to explore a part of town that you’ve never seen before–your self-worth will love you for it.
- Read/listen to/watch all things Timothy Ferriss, and read/listen to/watch anything referred to by Timothy Ferriss
- Challenge yourself to challenging material
- “Do one thing a day that scares you” Eleanor Roosevelt (I got this quote from Timothy Ferriss)
- Look at the ratio
- Consider logistics in what you do
- Obey The 48 Laws of Power in addition to the laws of What Would Google Do?
- Do a Venn Diagram each day
- 80/20 every. single. part of your game (with sex, dating, business, career, organization, etc, what you 80/20)
- Learn to dance
- Know a martial art–you’ll gain massive confidence from knowing you’re prepared
- Even if you’re a positive person, look at as many things that could go wrong… never get taken by surprise (if possible)
- Poop more often–clear your colon (my friend, not me, does this and has lots to say. TMI alert: I’ll be getting an enema here soon)
- Delegate, delegate, delegate. Even if you’re “an employee” (Do this for business, personal work, dating, lol)
- DO THE HOUR OF POWER by Tony Robbins.
- DO THE HOUR OF POWER by Tony Robbins.
- DO THE HOUR OF POWER by Tony Robbins.
These are some of the most kick-ass ideas that I have. These ideas were generated by asking “What best are my greatest ideas” and then putting them up for here. If you enjoy the ideas generated here, let me know!
Ciao For Now,
Which sounds like a better method of breaking open the lock to a treasure chest (assuming you have a crowbar):
Scenario 1: Use the crowbar for 30 seconds–and then continue to pull the lock off by hand for the rest of time, OR…
Scenario 2: With the crowbar firmly in the open space and against the lock, with the treasure chest as the fulcrum, you continually press through on the crowbar until that lock fucking snaps.
That’s right, you’ll want to press on that crowbar for sure. Find out what you can use yon yourself for leverage to break the lock. The treasure of your greatness lies within.
JUST DO IT.